Jesus is Building a Home for Us

Pastor’s Column

5^th Sunday of Easter

May 3, 2026

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me.

In my father’s house there are many dwelling places.…I am going to prepare a place for you.”

John 14:1-3

Many years ago, I signed up to be a chaplain on a cruise ship. I have only done this once, because I get deathly seasick on boats, and no amount of patches, Dramamine or wristbands seems to be enough. Nevertheless, I received some tremendous insights on this voyage about the nature of life on earth.

Life is like a voyage on an ocean liner. There are all kinds of rooms onboard. Some are fine staterooms with beautiful views and balconies over the water while others are below the waterline – the staterooms that are less expensive. Still other staterooms are “inside cabins” – rooms without a view, rooms that are small or rooms that can make one seasick (guess which one they gave me)! In other words, on the voyage of life, each of us lives in a different sort of stateroom – in other words, we differ in class, ability, talent and opportunities, income, health, and so on. But one thing each of us shares is that we’re all in the same boat. Each of us has a day that we embarked on our journey of life and there will come a day that we will each disembark (our last day). But unlike a cruise, each of us gets on and off at different times.

The problem is that none of us remember our embarkation (our birth) we become conscious and aware of our existence while on board the ship and must each discover the true nature of things as life progresses. How foolish it is to forget that we are, as it were, on a boat in the water. Each of us has a destination (we do have a choice; heaven is not automatic) and in that place we will live forever. How foolish to spend an inordinate amount of time fussing over and decorating the stateroom on a voyage of limited time or to spend one’s whole time trying to climb up to a first-class stateroom while paying no attention to the home we are going to live in on the far shore when we disembark. Yet so many live as if the boat were our only home, as if this world were all there is. For earth is in the end but a temporary dwelling place.

In this Sunday’s gospel, Jesus gives us a most comforting image: he is building a house for us. It is not like any earthly house because this builder knows exactly what is perfect for us and the builder is God. We will have neighbors that we love, yet as much privacy as we need.  Each room will be decorated with significant scenes, three-dimensional and real, from moments in our previous life, moments that glorified God. It will be the home of our dreams.

It sounds cliché, but this home will be only as good as the materials we send up. Perhaps you have heard the story of a man who had a vision of heaven, and he was taken to a street with many fine mansions, including the one where Mother Teresa lived. Of course, he didn’t expect to be staying near her! And they walked and walked and walked until they found a small cabin with missing windows and doors. “Here’s your home,” said the angel. The man was surprised at this until the angel said, “Yes, it’s modest, but this was all we could do with the materials you sent up!” Jesus has indeed gone to prepare a permanent home for us, so let’s take care to send up good materials for him to work with.

Father Gary